He or she is not an angel!

BismiLLAHirrahmanirrahim.
Assalamualaikum warahmatuLLAHi wabarakatuh.

 اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم

If I have to give an advice that I wish that will last forever,

I would say, insyaALLAH,

"Please treat a human like a human. He or she is not an angel!"

You might reply,

"Of course lah I know he's a human, what are you thinking? Pfft."

"Geez, we can't even see the angels with rough eyes! How could I - ever - think that she's an angel from above?"

My point is not about the physical that you are pointing at.

It is not about what you see. It is about how you see.

What are the differences? I'm not playing around with words.

To begin with,

did it crossed your mind how perfect someone's life is?

How he was born in a rich family.

How she never miss her usrah.

How he scored in each examination with flying colours.

How she knows how to cook perfectly.

And you are so jealous because it doesn't seem that you can see their flaw at all!

Had it crossed your mind? More or less something like that?

If I am right, then you are wrong. Slight. Not totally.

Because it is normal to somehow thinks like that.

What is not normal is when you are corrected again and again, you just don't listen.

But, human is human. We make mistakes. I make mistakes.

What I am trying to say is...

Please stop thinking in such a way.

If you keep on walking in this pace, you can't see the whole world just yet.

Because, once you see he or she makes mistakes, it will blow off your mind more than you can handle. You will find it difficult to keep your good impressions (husnu dzon).

On top of all,

the biggest problem somewhat will turn to you.

People will think you in that way.

People will think that you -- are an angel.

Again, not physically, but mentally.

Angels don't make mistakes!

But we did, and perhaps we are going to.

Just a slight mistake, and people will behave that you had sent a nuclear bomb somewhere!

And it will burden you.

You will ask GOD, "Whyyyy?"

Don't ask GOD why. HE is GOD.

That - you have to comprehend. HE is and always be GOD.

HE created us without asking, "Should I make you flawless?"

No.

So why are we asking HIM, "Why did I made such a foolish thing?"

Why?

Because we are so full of ourselves.

We think the world is ours.

We don't see each other in different perspectives.

It is like wearing the same glass for 20 years, when your lens should have been change every 6 months or so.

Don't blame others for mistakes.

Don't simply use the word "istidraj".

Don't blame yourself too heavy for a mistake, or many mistakes, also.

If ALLAH had wanted you to be flawless, HE could.

If ALLAH had wanted you to be so evil, HE could.

But HE made you full of flaw - but - HE also teaches you how to repent.

This is the part I am really trigger to say -- "Sweet kan ALLAH?"

*Just because so many people use that line.

I would like to share you this,

and let you ponder.

ALLAHua'lam.